It seems that the history of mankind can be described as a rush from
one extreme position to another, like a pendulum gone. We’re doing
it again.
For the past several
decades, we’ve lost track of the promise at the end of James 2:13:
“…Mercy triumphs over judgment.” For the past several decades,
the church has earned a reputation as a house of judgment and
intolerance, of narrow-mindedness and bigotry. Frankly, we’ve
earned the reputation.
You’ve may have
noticed, however, that the pendulum is swinging back, as is its wont.
There are several changes that are happening in the church that
reflect the pendulum’s return: one that I have observed over the
past several years today is a rise, an increase, in the expression of
mercy gifts among individuals in the church. It’s one reflection of
the change in direction of the church: we’re becoming less
judgmental, and more merciful.
We certainly need
that change. The bad news is that the world has judged the church for
being judgmental and out of touch, and that judgment has been
appropriate. The good news is that the church is changing her
heading, but it seems that we’re headed for increased turbulence
with the corrections we’re making, not toward calmer waters.The increase of the
gift of mercy within the church, has not been well documented, and
indeed it’s difficult to document and to analyze. You may or may
not have seen what I have been observing for the past year; it is
indeed subtle. Allow me to state my point fairly directly, and you
can make your own observations.Our text, then, is
Romans 12:6-8:“Having then gifts
differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use
them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; or
ministry, let us use it in our ministering; he who teaches, in
teaching; he who exhorts, in exhortation; he who gives, with
liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with
cheerfulness.”First, let’s agree
that mercy really is a gift, and by divine command, it is to be
exercised with “cheerfulness” (literally hílarós, a root word
that has become “hilarity” in English).It’s my
observation as one who has been a part of the church for a bunch of
decades, that there are more people in the church now than there were
a decade ago who are gifted with mercy, and the gift is more
respected than it has been before. The church is more aware now than
perhaps ever of the need to respond to sinners with understanding and
empathy rather than a good clubbing with Old Testament Law. Our
services often focus on meeting the needs of “pre Christians”
rather than discussing sin and its consequences for “sinners.”We have softened our
approach to people-different-than-ourselves, and even many of our
street evangelists are asking questions or meeting needs more than
proclaiming judgment on street-corners.That much is good.The context for this
growth in mercy, however, has been neither cheerfulness nor hilarity.
The mercy that is growing in the church is growing without having
been disciplined, it is mercy out of control, and it is becoming a
destructive force in the church.Pastors and other
leaders are finding themselves confronted by their congregations for
being too stern, too strict when confronting sloth or sin. Church
discipline – ever the touchy subject – has become anathema: we’re
afraid to go there.Often, the
confrontation is motivated at least in part by mercy: let’s not be
too harsh. But it’s mercy out of control, mercy without discipline
behind it, mercy without maturity. The resulting of the conversation
– a pastor afraid to speak the truth – is not normally considered
a step toward maturity. This is mercy guided by ignorance or (worse)
rebellion.For example, a
friend of mine leads a worship band, and her drummer was getting
lazy. He’d use the same riffs for nearly every song, and his
playing had gotten boring: he was stagnant and worse than that, he
was content with being stagnant. As the leader, she had spoken to him
a couple of times privately, and they’d agreed on certain goals,
and on the means to achieve those goals.Once during
rehearsal, he drifted back into his old, stagnant patterns, and she
needed to remind him of the standards they had agreed to. But when
she did, she was surprised to find several other members of the band
getting in her face about how she had “judged” him. The other
members thought they were being “merciful” (and indeed, they are
known to be merciful people), but because their mercy was un-tempered
by self-control, it brought division, not unity to their band. This
was mercy guided by self-indulgence.In 1 Samuel 15, God
sent king Saul to destroy the Amelekites, with specific instruction
to kill everything:• “But kill
both man and woman, infant and nursing child, ox and sheep, camel and
donkey.”Saul musters the
army and conquers the enemy, but instead of obeying God, he shows
mercy:• “But Saul
and the people spared Agag and the best of the sheep, the oxen, the
fatlings, the lambs, and all that was good, and were unwilling to
utterly destroy them.”Sure, there were
other motivations; greed come to mind, but the act was merciful,
whether it was mixed with lesser values or not.The story concludes
with God judging Saul, not because he was merciful (who is more
merciful than God?), but because Saul’s mercy was undisciplined,
and the fruit was disobedience. Saul feared the people more than he
feared God; God could no longer trust him as king, and He fired him
and began preparing David to replace him.In our school
district, very few students are “flunked” or “held back”
because it’s considered bad for the student’s self-esteem. I’m
all for being careful with kids’ tender hearts, but if a teacher
feels pity for a capable-but-undisciplined student, and passes a
failing student for whatever reason, that teacher is not doing the
student any favors. If the kid can’t read his own high-school
diploma because of well-meaning, but ultimately short-sighted
policies, that student will still be illiterate and functionally
unemployable, all because of his educators’ misguided mercy. This
is mercy guided by shortsightedness, by fear of confrontation, or
perhaps mercy without guidance at all.For the past twenty
years, the church has been getting used to the rebirth of prophetic
gifts. We’ve seen Prophetic Schools and Prophetic Training Classes
and Prophetic Conferences by the hundreds. All of this has been an
attempt to teach the prophetic people how to minister their prophetic
gifts: ultimately, it’s been aimed at producing mature prophets and
prophetesses, who use their gifts responsibly: in other words, we’ve
been breeding self-control into the prophetic movement, and I for
one, am thankful for it. (Who wants to return to the prophetic
poo-flinging and free-for-alls of the late ’80’s? Not I, thank
you very much!)So consider this a
call (perhaps even a prophetic call?) to arms on behalf of the
restoration of the gift of mercy. It’s time for mercy to come to
the forefront in the church.And it’s time that
we begin to expect, even plan for, maturity in the gift of mercy.Mercy triumphs over
judgment.Mature mercy
triumphs better.